dating safety intelligence

red flags don't
announce themselves.

your group chat is wrong. paste the convo. we'll tell you straight.

decode a conversation how it works
72
compatibility score
ok this might be something
they're actually trying ✅
same humor ✅
you're carrying this convo 🚩
more charm than substance 🚩
private. always.
how it works

three steps. zero signup.

1

paste or screenshot

from any chat. any app. any situationship.

2

between decodes it

attachment style, effort, intent, and red flags instantly.

3

get your score

share your score card with friends. no convo text shown.

what you get

more than a score.

🎯

compatibility score

0-100 score based on communication patterns, not vibes.

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attachment style detection

secure, anxious, avoidant — detected from how they text.

⚖️

effort balance

see who is carrying the conversation.

🚩

red flag detection

patterns humans miss — love bombing, emotional unavailability.

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match timeline

track how your score changes over time.

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shareable score card

share results with friends — no conversation text shown.

stop guessing.
start decoding.

no signup. no account. no data collected.
paste a conversation and get answers in seconds.

decode your first conversation
"omg i literally sent this convo to my group chat at 11pm and they all said different things 😭 between just told me the truth in 10 seconds."
— everyone who has ever been on a date